As I’ve explained before, I specialise in entertaining older men, and offer “outercourse”. Most people understand that means non-penetrative sex but I always stress the point when taking calls from new clients.
I live close to an upmarket retirement “village” which has around 600 units, and there are also many retirees in the larger area. The vast majority of my clients are well-funded for their late years but, unfortunately, as they have aged, their bodies no longer respond as they would like, though they have not lost the desire for sexual contact. The problem for them is that they don’t have an understanding and willing sex partner, even though they may have wives.
I never want more than two clients a day and I rarely take weekend bookings. Demand exceeds supply but I’m as busy as I want to be to maintain a good standard of living. If all that sounds mercenary, well, I suppose it is, but I put a lot of effort into what I do and I think I provide a service that is very much appreciated.
As well as those men who have age-related erection problems, there are those that seem to suffer from performance anxiety. I hear about this from several men, even those that are somewhat younger. In summary, the problem seems to be that fear of not getting or of losing an erection actually cause it to happen. To compound the issue, they feel bad about not being able to satisfy the woman they are with, let alone themselves. I think it is one of the reasons that, by offering only non-penetrative sex, I attract some clients, because with me they don’t feel that pressure to perform.
Some of my clients take Viagra before seeing me, others have tried it but don’t continue with it because of the side-effects, and others just don’t wish to use it. From those that use it I have learned a lot about the do’s and don’ts and perhaps some readers would like to hear about such things. If not, just skip the next paragraph.
Please don’t take what I have to say about Viagra as a qualified medical opinion; it is just the experiences that I have been told about over a period of time. The first thing is that Viagra does not combine at all well with alcohol, which negates its intended effect and aggravates side-effects like stomach acidity, nausea and blurred vision. Then there seems to be a recommendation that it is casino şirketleri taken on an empty stomach so that it is more easily absorbed into the system. Although it can work after twenty minutes, they say it is best to wait for about an hour. As regards dosage, I have heard that more is not necessarily better, again because of those side-effects. Finally, it is not an automatic erection generator; without the right kind of stimulus, a cock will still not respond.
So now I think it is time to tell you about what engages me by far the most with my clients and is the reason I think I am soon going to need a wrist support.
I never gave it much thought but, for years, I just assumed that a man needed a proper erection in order to cum. It was an older lover who taught me otherwise when he had an off day and couldn’t get it up. To my surprise, I was able to make his semi-hard cock cum with my hands, following his instructions as I went, and it seemed to me that he had an orgasm that was even stronger than normal. It was fascinating. (I must add that he was a gentleman and afterwards saw to my needs as well.)
If I were to write about every handjob I have given, I would be here for months so I will have to generalise. The most important thing for me is to discover what really turns on the man to the extent that he is going to reach a good, satisfying climax. This is very individual and small details matter.
The most common subject material is anal sex. It enthrals the majority of my clients and many like to know how it feels for the woman, step by step, from the initial probing finger to the final few thrusts. I think that for those who have only seen professional porn, my descriptions are quite a revelation.
The second most popular topic is spanking (maybe I’ll write about that at another time, if sufficient people indicate an interest.) and then there are a host of other things, lesbian sex, and sex with older women being quite popular.
As I have mentioned before, it is the internet that plays a major role in most of what I do and my study, where I have my computer, is where most sessions take place. Before getting started with a client, I’ll get him out of as many cloths as he wishes and I’ll be down to a g-string, stockings and heels. I’ll sit on a chair by his side casino firmaları and we’ll look at some internet porn images for a while, with me stroking his thigh. I usually do most of the talking, at least at the beginning, trying to create a relaxed and fun mood, and being quite explicit about what we are looking at.
We’ll then move on to watch a video clip, usually one that he has brought along, and by this point I will start to fondle his cock and balls and apply some baby oil so there is physical stimulation as well as visual and verbal.
If he gets hard quickly, usually because he has taken Viagra, I know I have to go easy for quite a while and will just use one hand to gently stoke the shaft. The challenge is to find the balance between keeping him hard but not getting it so stiff and sensitive that he cums all too quickly, and much before the end of a twenty minute video.
If he is soft, I’m much more busy. I’ll use two hands, one to at the base and the other around the head. I’ll be sideways to the screen so I will have to keep glancing around to see what is happening so that I can talk about it. With the hand at the base stretching back the loose skin and squeezing, and with my other hand sliding around the tip, I can usually create a pseudo erection. The tricky part is getting the right grip at the base and I will often ask my client to do it himself while I concentrate on the swollen upper half.
As things progress, it becomes a matter of timing because ideally I’d like my client to cum at the same time as the guy on the screen. This takes good teamwork and I’ll ask if he wants his cock rubbed harder or faster or whatever. I will often be kneeling between his thighs so that I can’t see the screen and some clients will give a running commentary.
With men who find it difficult to stay hard or pseudo hard, they will sometimes take over the job themselves and then ask me to give the final strokes to finish them off. Those final strokes can vary as well. Some want them hard and fast, others slow and squeezing, and still others just want their cock to be held. And then there are different kinds of spurts, which vary between volcanic eruptions to meandering woodland streams.
Like many women, I find it incredible how something that starts off so small and soft güvenilir casino and pliable can turn into something so big and hard, especially so when it is gripped and held at the base. Quite amazing!
I don’t like to take facials but I’m OK with having my tits splashed and pressed against because I like the lovely feeling of warmth that comes from a well rubbed cock and fresh cum. By this time I have a great sense of achievement for what has been accomplished, even if I have a very tired wrist.
As you might imagine, there are many variations on what I have described. What starts out as a handjob may turn into mutual masturbation or the guy finishing himself off on my stocking tops or bum.
Two of my regular clients never get hard at all, not even a pseudo erection. With them I will play with their cocks for a while but I have still to learn how to get them to orgasm. I just can’t get the right pressure and pace, and so they do it themselves. I find it quite fascinating to see a flaccid cock cumming and they say it is just as intense as it used to be when everything was in full working order.
One of my clients always arrives pretending to feel very dirty and sweaty and so needs to take a shower with me. His cock is especially dirty and so I have to give it a thorough wash, which somehow just happens to cause it to let loose a jet of sperm. Fortunately for my water bill, he cums quite quickly. Afterwards, he talks about his day as if nothing had happened and then goes on his way.
If, like me, you have an interest in useless information, then I calculate the following:
assuming that a man ejaculates 5 millilitres of sperm when he cums, and given that I have entertained an average of 8 clients per week for 80 weeks, then I have overseen the production of more than 3 litres of sperm.
Through all the encounters I have described in this story and in my previous efforts, I would describe the sex I give as being social. It’s not the kind of sex that starts or ends with cuddling in bed together, whispering sweet nothings; I don’t think it would be very professional of me to go in that direction. I am well aware that some clients would like to get personally close to me but that’s not what I want because I am more than happy with my private life as it is. I have to guard against encouraging anything that might suggest otherwise while still giving them what they pay for. It can be quite a challenge but it’s part of the job.
Thank you again to all those that have sent me such positive feedback. I’ll write more soon.